Thanksgiving prep. The commissary was a mess. Caleb had baseball practice Tuesday and Thursday. I drove.
Caleb, 7, wants to be a firefighter still. Has not deviated. Hazel, 3, chaos incarnate. Put a peanut butter sandwich in the DVD player Wednesday. Showed zero remorse.
Chili Saturday. Beef and beans. Cornbread on the side. Fed everyone for two days.
Mom called Sunday. We talked while she was putting up tomatoes from the garden. She is sixty-something and gardening like she is forty.
Kids in bed. Dishes done. I sat at the table with a glass of wine and called my mom.
Base housing is base housing. Beige walls, beige carpet, beige expectations. The dryer venting is in a stupid place. The kitchen has no dishwasher. We make it work.
Donna sent a recipe card in the mail this week. She has been doing this for years. The recipes go in the binder. The binder is full. The newest one is for a green bean casserole that uses fresh green beans and fried shallots and which I will absolutely make for the next holiday.
Ryan's friends came over Friday for a beer. I made wings and chips. They demolished both. Standard Marine appetite — they eat like they are still on rations. The kitchen looked like a battlefield by the end. They cleaned up. Marines clean up. Donna would have been impressed.
The PCS rumors are starting again. The official orders will come in a few months. We could move. We could stay. The waiting is the worst part. Three years here and I have learned to not put down deep roots in any military town. Nineteen-year-old me would not have believed how good I have gotten at packing.
The kitchen counter has a chip in it from someone before us. Some military housing thing. I have stopped asking what. The chip is fine. The whole kitchen is provisional. We are renting from Uncle Sam.
I went for a walk Sunday morning before the kids got up. Half an hour. The fog was burning off. I needed it. Some weeks I get the walk in. Some weeks I don't. The week tells me which.
The military spouses' Facebook group had a small drama this week. Two women fighting over the playgroup schedule. I muted notifications and cooked dinner. Some weeks the group is the lifeline. Some weeks it is the source of unnecessary stress. The skill is knowing which week you're in.
I unpacked another box from storage Tuesday afternoon. Three years on this base and I am still finding things I packed in Twentynine Palms. Military-wife archeology — every box is a layer of geological history. I found a ceramic dish from Lejeune still wrapped in newspaper from 2020.
I read the blog comments at the kitchen table with my coffee. A young spouse in Lejeune emailed me about deployment cooking. I wrote her back at length. I told her about the freezer. I told her about Donna. I told her she would survive. I sent her three of Donna's recipes.
Caleb's school had a fundraiser this week. I baked cookies because I always bake cookies. The cookies were the standard chocolate chip. They sold out in twenty minutes. I am the cookie mom of this PTO and I have stopped fighting it.
The kids' soccer game was Saturday morning. The other parents brought oranges and Capri Suns. I brought a thermos of coffee for myself and a folding chair I bought at Target three years ago that has been to four duty stations now. The chair is a more loyal companion than some of my friends.
The chili did its job Saturday — fed everyone, required no negotiation, asked nothing of me in return. But by Friday, with Ryan’s friends in the kitchen demolishing everything that wasn’t nailed down, I was reminded that some nights call for something that comes together in one pan and disappears even faster. This cheeseburger skillet is that meal: it tastes like something you planned, even when you absolutely did not, and it scales up for Marines without blinking. Donna would probably add a garnish. I don’t.
Cheeseburger Skillet Dinner
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 25 minutes | Total Time: 35 minutes | Servings: 5
Ingredients
- 1 lb ground beef (80/20)
- 1 small yellow onion, diced
- 2 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 1/2 cups beef broth
- 1 can (14.5 oz) diced tomatoes, undrained
- 1 1/2 cups elbow macaroni, uncooked
- 2 tbsp ketchup
- 1 tbsp yellow mustard
- 1 tsp Worcestershire sauce
- 1 1/2 cups shredded sharp cheddar cheese, divided
- Salt and black pepper to taste
- Optional: dill pickle slices, diced white onion, shredded iceberg lettuce for topping
Instructions
- Brown the beef. Heat a large, deep skillet over medium-high heat. Add ground beef and diced onion. Cook, breaking up the meat, until no pink remains and the onion is softened, about 7–8 minutes. Drain excess fat.
- Build the flavor base. Stir in the garlic, ketchup, mustard, and Worcestershire sauce. Cook for 1 minute, stirring constantly, until fragrant.
- Add liquids and pasta. Pour in the beef broth and diced tomatoes with their juices. Stir in the dry elbow macaroni. Bring the mixture to a boil over medium-high heat.
- Simmer until tender. Reduce heat to medium-low, cover the skillet, and cook for 12–15 minutes, stirring every 4–5 minutes, until the pasta is tender and most of the liquid has been absorbed. Season with salt and pepper.
- Melt the cheese. Remove the skillet from heat. Stir in 1 cup of the cheddar until melted and incorporated. Sprinkle the remaining 1/2 cup evenly over the top, replace the lid, and let sit 3 minutes until the top layer melts.
- Serve. Spoon directly from the skillet into bowls and top with pickles, raw onion, or lettuce if using. Pairs well with a side of chips, cornbread, or the knowledge that there are leftovers for tomorrow.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 490 | Protein: 30g | Fat: 24g | Carbs: 38g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 710mg