Two years of writing. One hundred and four weeks. A number that feels significant in the way that all round numbers do — as markers on a road that has no end.
Year two in review: Hurricane Harvey tried to break Houston and couldn't. Tyler got his license and his first car and his first girlfriend. Emma started high school, joined a cooking club, placed second in a competition, and is keeping a recipe notebook that will someday be worth more than anything I own. Lily stopped eating chicken nuggets and started making dinner. Ma survived Harvey, got her kitchen rebuilt, and told her grandchildren about the boat. I won a regional sales award, entered a BBQ competition and placed eleventh, and marked nine years of sobriety.
That's a lot of life for fifty-two weeks.
But here's what I keep thinking about: the chain. Ma learned to cook from her mother in Saigon. She taught me. I'm teaching my kids. Emma has a notebook. Tyler can make fried rice. Lily can make pho. The chain goes forward, link by link, recipe by recipe, hand to hand.
Mr. Clarence taught Ma. Ma taught me. I taught Emma. Emma will teach someone. The BBQ, the Vietnamese food, the fusion that happens when two cultures meet in a backyard in Alief — it all keeps going. Not because anyone wrote it in a textbook. Because someone stood at a stove and said, "Watch. This is how you do it."
This week I made spring rolls with the kids. All three of them at the counter, rolling rice paper, arguing about filling ratios, making rolls that ranged from perfect (Emma) to structurally questionable (Tyler) to hilariously overstuffed (Lily). Ma would have opinions about all of them. Ma always has opinions.
Saturday pho at Ma's. The ritual holds. She ladled the broth and I watched the steam rise and I thought: two years of writing. Two years of telling you about this kitchen, this woman, this broth. Two years of saying: the things worth having are the things you tend to patiently.
I'm still tending. The fire is still burning. The broth is still simmering.
Year three starts next week. Same smoker. Same La Croix. Same stubborn Vietnamese-Texan in a lawn chair, watching the smoke rise, grateful for every hour.
See you Monday.
That spring roll session with all three kids at the counter—Emma’s perfect rolls, Tyler’s questionable architecture, Lily’s overstuffed masterpieces—it needed something hot and sticky on the side to round out the spread. This Better Than Takeout Sticky Chicken has become our go-to alongside the rolls. Tyler started calling it “the bribe chicken” because it’s the only reason he shows up to help roll instead of disappearing to his car. Two years in, and the chain keeps going: Ma’s spring rolls on one plate, this chicken on another, three kids arguing about filling ratios, and all of it exactly as it should be.
Better Than Takeout Sticky Chicken
Prep Time: 15 minutes | Cook Time: 25 minutes | Total Time: 40 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 2 pounds boneless, skinless chicken thighs, cut into bite-sized pieces
- 1/2 cup cornstarch
- 1/4 teaspoon salt
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 3 tablespoons vegetable oil
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1/3 cup soy sauce
- 1/3 cup honey
- 2 tablespoons rice vinegar
- 1 tablespoon sesame oil
- 1 tablespoon sriracha (optional, adjust to taste)
- 1 teaspoon fresh ginger, grated
- 1 tablespoon sesame seeds, for garnish
- 2 green onions, sliced, for garnish
Instructions
- Coat the chicken. Pat chicken pieces dry with paper towels. Toss with cornstarch, salt, and pepper until evenly coated.
- Crisp the chicken. Heat vegetable oil in a large skillet or wok over medium-high heat. Add chicken in a single layer, working in batches if needed. Cook 4–5 minutes per side until golden and crispy. Transfer to a plate lined with paper towels.
- Make the sticky sauce. In the same skillet, reduce heat to medium. Add garlic and ginger and cook for 30 seconds until fragrant. Stir in soy sauce, honey, rice vinegar, sesame oil, and sriracha. Bring to a simmer and cook 2–3 minutes until the sauce thickens slightly.
- Toss and coat. Return the chicken to the skillet and toss to coat evenly in the sticky sauce. Cook 1–2 minutes more, stirring frequently, until the sauce clings to every piece.
- Serve. Transfer to a serving platter and garnish with sesame seeds and sliced green onions. Serve immediately alongside spring rolls, steamed rice, or both.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 420 | Protein: 38g | Fat: 16g | Carbs: 32g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 890mg
About the cook who shared this
Bobby Tran
Week 104 of Bobby’s 30-year story
· Houston, Texas
Bobby Tran was born in a refugee camp in Arkansas to parents who fled Saigon with nothing. He grew up in Houston straddling two worlds — Vietnamese at home, Texan everywhere else — and learned to cook from his mother's pho and a neighbor's BBQ smoker. He's a former shrimper, a recovering alcoholic, a divorced dad of three, and the guy who marinates brisket in fish sauce and lemongrass because he doesn't believe in borders, especially when it comes to flavor.