This was the week of the newsletter article follow-up. The community center director forwarded me three emails from readers who had seen the profile they ran about my workshops last month and wanted to know how they could bring something similar to their neighborhoods. Two were from the north end of the valley, one was from a woman in Provo who volunteers with a food pantry and thought the model would work beautifully for families learning to stretch a tight budget.
I didn't know what to do with that. I sat with the emails for two days before responding, which is unusual for me — I usually answer things quickly. But these felt weightier than a simple reply. These were people asking me to expand, to go somewhere I hadn't planned. I talked to my therapist about it and she said something I keep turning over: that saying yes to one thing is always saying no to something else, and the question is whether you're clear about what you're trading.
What am I trading? Time. Energy. Some of the quiet I've finally started to build back into my weeks. But also — maybe — staying small when something I started is clearly wanting to grow. I wrote the woman from Provo a long email and we ended up on the phone for forty minutes. Her name is Debra. She's been feeding people from a church food pantry for eleven years and she said she watches families take canned goods home and she knows they don't always know what to do with them. She wants to teach them. I told her I'd come once and see.
Meanwhile, I made a big pot of corn chowder this week because it's corn season and I can't help myself. Fresh corn cut right off the cob, bacon, potatoes, a splash of cream at the end. The kids ate two bowls each. Gary came home from work late and I had a covered bowl waiting for him and he stood at the counter and finished it without even sitting down, which is the highest compliment.
I don't know yet what comes next with the expansion questions. But Debra and I are meeting in three weeks and I'll know more after that.
Corn chowder was already on my mind that week — and honestly, chowder in general felt like the right answer to everything I was sitting with. When Debra and I got off the phone and I couldn’t quite settle my thoughts, I found myself back at the stove, wanting something that took a little tending, something layered and slow. This seafood chowder is the version I keep returning to when a simple bowl of soup needs to do a little more heavy lifting — rich enough to feel like a reward, familiar enough to feel like steady ground.
Best Seafood Chowder
Prep Time: 20 min | Cook Time: 35 min | Total Time: 55 min | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 3 tablespoons butter
- 1 medium onion, diced
- 3 stalks celery, sliced
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1/4 cup all-purpose flour
- 3 cups chicken or seafood broth
- 2 cups whole milk
- 1 cup heavy cream
- 3 medium Yukon Gold potatoes, peeled and cubed (about 3 cups)
- 1/2 pound shrimp, peeled, deveined, and roughly chopped
- 1/2 pound scallops, quartered if large
- 1/2 pound cod or halibut, cut into 1-inch pieces
- 1 cup corn kernels, fresh or frozen
- 1 teaspoon Old Bay seasoning
- 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
- Salt and black pepper to taste
- 2 tablespoons fresh parsley, chopped
- 4 slices bacon, cooked and crumbled (for topping)
- Oyster crackers, for serving
Instructions
- Cook the aromatics. In a large Dutch oven or heavy-bottomed pot, melt butter over medium heat. Add onion and celery and cook, stirring occasionally, until softened, about 5 minutes. Add garlic and cook 1 minute more.
- Build the base. Sprinkle flour over the vegetables and stir to coat. Cook for 1–2 minutes to eliminate the raw flour taste. Gradually whisk in the broth, stirring constantly to prevent lumps.
- Simmer the potatoes. Add milk, heavy cream, potatoes, Old Bay, and thyme. Bring to a gentle simmer over medium heat, stirring frequently. Cook until potatoes are just fork-tender, about 15–18 minutes. Do not boil.
- Add the seafood and corn. Stir in the shrimp, scallops, fish, and corn. Cook over medium-low heat until the seafood is just cooked through and opaque, about 5–7 minutes. Do not overcook.
- Season and finish. Taste and adjust with salt and black pepper. Remove from heat and stir in fresh parsley.
- Serve. Ladle into bowls and top with crumbled bacon and a handful of oyster crackers.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 420 | Protein: 32g | Fat: 22g | Carbs: 28g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 740mg