Birthday week. Forty-three on Monday, January 29th. The age Mama was when she had Andre. The garlic connects us. Women change. Kitchens evolve. The garlic remains.
Derek cooked. DEREK COOKED. Jerk chicken — his mother's recipe from Jamaica. The chicken was perfect. The kitchen was a disaster. Every pot and surface used. The cleanup took longer than the cooking. I didn't care because Derek Washington stood in my kitchen and made me dinner and the love was in the marinade and the mess and the man.
Zoe made the cake — her third year making mine. Lemon cake with blueberry compote and cream cheese frosting. Scratch. Even layers. Smooth frosting. Berries in an artistically deliberate pattern. She is becoming a baker the way she becomes everything: quietly, thoroughly, with aesthetic vision.
Marcus sang "Happy Birthday" off-key (Jackson tradition). Jasmine sang it on-key (Jasmine tradition). Isaiah texted a photo of collard greens made in my honor. Curtis gave me a card with twenty dollars and said, "Buy yourself something nice," which he has said every birthday since I was ten and which I will never tire of because those words in Curtis Jackson's voice are their own love song.
Derek’s jerk chicken left every pot in my kitchen dirty and my heart completely full — and it reminded me that a marinade is never just seasoning, it’s intention. When I want to bring that same energy to a weeknight dinner without the full Jamaican pantry, I reach for these balsamic pork chops: bold, tangy, deeply savory, and fragrant in a way that fills the kitchen with something that smells like effort and love. The mess is optional. The feeling isn’t.
Balsamic Pork Chops
Prep Time: 10 min | Cook Time: 15 min | Total Time: 25 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 4 bone-in pork chops (about 3/4 inch thick)
- 1/3 cup balsamic vinegar
- 2 tablespoons olive oil, divided
- 2 tablespoons honey
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard
- 1 teaspoon fresh thyme leaves (or 1/2 teaspoon dried)
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes (optional)
- Fresh parsley, chopped, for garnish
Instructions
- Make the marinade. In a small bowl, whisk together the balsamic vinegar, 1 tablespoon olive oil, honey, garlic, Dijon mustard, thyme, salt, pepper, and red pepper flakes if using.
- Marinate the pork. Place the pork chops in a shallow dish or zip-top bag and pour the marinade over them. Turn to coat evenly. Marinate at room temperature for at least 15 minutes, or refrigerate for up to 4 hours for deeper flavor.
- Sear the chops. Heat the remaining 1 tablespoon olive oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Remove the pork chops from the marinade, reserving the marinade, and sear for 4—5 minutes per side until nicely browned and cooked through (internal temperature of 145°F).
- Build the glaze. Remove the pork chops to a plate and tent with foil. Pour the reserved marinade into the skillet and bring to a boil over medium-high heat. Cook, stirring, for 2—3 minutes until the glaze thickens and reduces by about half.
- Finish and serve. Spoon the balsamic glaze over the pork chops, garnish with fresh parsley, and serve immediately alongside roasted vegetables, mashed potatoes, or a simple green salad.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 310 | Protein: 28g | Fat: 14g | Carbs: 14g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 340mg