February is coming, which in Detroit means the worst of winter is either behind you or ahead of you, and you will not know which until it happens. Some years, February is a slow thaw. Other years, February is January's angry sequel. We are hoping for the thaw. We are prepared for the sequel.
Brianna signed up for a hair braiding workshop at a community center in Southfield. It is a one-day class, thirty dollars, and she asked me to watch Aiden that Saturday with a nervousness that suggested she expected me to say no. I said yes immediately. Why would I say no? She wants to learn. She wants to build. I should be her biggest supporter, and sometimes I am, and sometimes I am too tired or too worried about money to be what she needs. But this time I said yes without hesitation, and the relief on her face told me how much the hesitation costs when it happens.
I spent Saturday with Aiden. Just us. We went to the park (cold but not unbearable), we went to the library (he pulled six books off the shelf and tried to eat one), we went to McDonald's (Happy Meal, the chicken nuggets, the toy was a Minion, he was delighted). Being a solo dad for a day is different from being a co-parenting dad. When it is just you, every decision is yours: what to eat, where to go, when to nap. There is a freedom in it and a weight. You are the safety net and the tightrope.
Brianna came home from the workshop energized. She was talking about box braids and knotless braids and feed-in braids and a dozen other terms I did not know. She practiced on a mannequin head she bought at the beauty supply store, and the apartment now has a disembodied head on the kitchen table that stares at me while I eat. Marriage is adapting to increasingly bizarre domestic situations without comment.
Sunday dinner was pork roast. Mama slow-cooks a pork loin in the oven with garlic, rosemary, and apple cider, and serves it with roasted potatoes and applesauce. The pork is tender and slightly sweet from the cider, and the drippings make a gravy that you want to drink from a cup but do not because you have manners. Dad fell asleep after his second plate. Mama covered him with a blanket. Aiden climbed into the recliner with him and they napped together — the old man and the baby, both snoring, both peaceful, both exactly where they belong.
Mama’s pork roast with apple cider is one of those dishes I’ve never tried to recreate exactly — it feels like hers in a way that I don’t want to disturb. But after that Sunday, watching Dad and Aiden snoring in the recliner while the apartment smelled like garlic and rosemary and something warm and sweet, I wanted to hold onto that feeling on a regular Tuesday. Apple cider chicken gets me close: the cider does the same quiet work it does in Mama’s roast, tenderizing and sweetening without showing off, and the whole thing comes together in one pan while life happens around it. It’s not Sunday dinner at Mama’s, but it’s a reason to sit down together — and some weeks, that’s everything.
Apple Cider Chicken
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 30 minutes | Total Time: 40 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 4 boneless, skinless chicken thighs (about 1.5 lbs)
- 1 cup apple cider (not apple cider vinegar)
- 1/2 cup low-sodium chicken broth
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 tablespoon olive oil
- 1 tablespoon unsalted butter
- 1 teaspoon fresh rosemary, finely chopped (or 1/2 teaspoon dried)
- 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1 tablespoon Dijon mustard
- 1 tablespoon brown sugar (optional, for extra sweetness)
- Fresh parsley, chopped, for garnish
Instructions
- Season the chicken. Pat chicken thighs dry with paper towels. Season both sides generously with salt and pepper.
- Sear the chicken. Heat olive oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add chicken thighs and cook without moving them for 5–6 minutes until golden brown. Flip and cook another 4–5 minutes. Transfer to a plate and set aside.
- Build the sauce. Reduce heat to medium. Add butter to the same skillet. Once melted, add garlic and rosemary and cook for about 1 minute until fragrant, stirring constantly so the garlic doesn’t burn.
- Add the cider. Pour in the apple cider and chicken broth, scraping up any browned bits from the bottom of the pan — that’s where the flavor lives. Stir in the Dijon mustard, thyme, and brown sugar if using.
- Simmer and finish. Return the chicken thighs to the skillet. Bring to a gentle simmer, then reduce heat to medium-low. Cook uncovered for 12–15 minutes, turning chicken once, until the sauce has reduced by about half and the chicken is cooked through (internal temperature of 165°F).
- Rest and serve. Remove from heat and let the chicken rest in the pan for 3–5 minutes. Spoon the pan sauce over the top, garnish with fresh parsley, and serve alongside roasted potatoes, egg noodles, or crusty bread for soaking up every bit of that cider gravy.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 285 | Protein: 31g | Fat: 12g | Carbs: 11g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 390mg
About the cook who shared this
DeShawn Carter
Week 45 of DeShawn’s 30-year story
· Detroit, Michigan
DeShawn is a thirty-six-year-old single dad, auto plant worker, and a man who didn't learn to cook until his wife left and his five-year-old asked, "Daddy, can you cook something?" He called his mama, who came over with two bags of groceries and spent six months teaching him the basics. Now he's the dad at the cookout who brings the ribs, the guy at the plant whose leftover gumbo starts fights, and living proof that it's never too late to learn.