Third week of January. Jenny's due date is next Thursday. The bag is packed. Miguel Jr. is checking his phone every fifteen minutes. Lucas (four and a half) is being told, repeatedly, that he is going to be a big brother to a baby boy, and Lucas has received this information with a mixture of enthusiasm and skepticism. ("Another one?" Lucas asked when Jenny told him. "Another baby? I already have a baby. Bella is a baby." Jenny explained that Isabella is not a baby anymore. Lucas was unconvinced.)
I have been in preparation mode for weeks. The freezer is loaded with meals for Miguel Jr. and Jenny for the postpartum weeks. Sofrito. Pasteles (the last of them, finally getting used up). Pernil slices in vacuum-seal bags. A container of sopa de pollo I made Wednesday specifically for the early postpartum days, because chicken soup is medicine and sopa de pollo is superior chicken soup.
The Puerto Rican sopa de pollo for postpartum mothers has ingredients that mainland chicken soup does not: calabaza, for sweetness and warmth; plantain, for iron; fideos (thin pasta) instead of egg noodles, because it feels like the island; extra sofrito, to stimulate the milk. That last one is probably folk wisdom with limited scientific backing, but every Puerto Rican woman I know was fed extra sofrito by her mother postpartum, and every Puerto Rican woman I know nursed successfully, and I am not going to interrupt the superstition.
Eduardo installed a new video baby monitor at Miguel Jr.'s house on Saturday. It was a gift from us. Jenny told me later that she cried when they set it up because "it feels like your dad knows what parents need before we do." Jenny calls Eduardo "your dad" now, which is its own graduation.
Sunday dinner was quieter — Rosa in New Haven, David in Brooklyn, Sofía studying for a practical exam, Miguel Jr. and Jenny at home because Jenny is seven days from the due date and does not want to be far from the hospital. So it was me, Eduardo, and Mami. Three people at a table for twelve. The house was quiet. Mami ate well. She ate slowly. She said, "The baby is coming soon." I said, "Yes, Mami." She said, "Another great-grandchild." I said, "Your fourth." She said, "I have seen four great-grandchildren. Who would have thought." She was sharp. She was present. She ate a full plate.
After dinner I helped her back to her apartment. I sat with her while she got ready for bed. I kissed her on the forehead. I said, "Good night, Mami." She said, "Good night, mija." She has not called me mija in a while. She always calls me Carmen. Tonight she called me mija. I went to the car and I sat for a minute before I drove home. The year is already turning. The baby is coming. My mother called me mija. Wepa.
I had already made the sopa de pollo, sealed the pernil, and stacked the pasteles — but on Wednesday night I looked at the freezer and thought, she is going to want something sweet in the morning, too. Jenny has always loved banana bread, and this version is one I feel good about sending to a nursing mother: less sugar, whole ingredients, nothing heavy. I wrapped two loaves in foil and tucked them in beside the soup. One for the first week. One for the second. Because when your grandson is about to arrive and your mother just called you mija, you bake until the feeling has somewhere to go.
Healthy Banana Bread
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 55 minutes | Total Time: 1 hour 5 minutes | Servings: 10 slices
Ingredients
- 3 very ripe bananas, mashed (about 1 1/4 cups)
- 1/4 cup honey or pure maple syrup
- 1/4 cup plain Greek yogurt
- 2 large eggs
- 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
- 1 3/4 cups whole wheat flour (or 1:1 blend of whole wheat and all-purpose)
- 1 teaspoon baking soda
- 1/2 teaspoon baking powder
- 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
- 1/4 teaspoon fine salt
- 2 tablespoons coconut oil or light olive oil, melted
- Optional: 1/3 cup chopped walnuts or dark chocolate chips
Instructions
- Preheat the oven. Heat your oven to 350°F (175°C). Grease a standard 9x5-inch loaf pan lightly with oil or nonstick spray and set aside.
- Mash the bananas. In a large mixing bowl, mash the ripe bananas thoroughly with a fork until nearly smooth — a few small lumps are fine and add texture.
- Mix the wet ingredients. Whisk the honey (or maple syrup), Greek yogurt, eggs, melted coconut oil, and vanilla extract into the mashed bananas until fully combined.
- Add the dry ingredients. Sprinkle the flour, baking soda, baking powder, cinnamon, and salt directly over the wet mixture. Stir gently with a spatula until just incorporated. Do not overmix — stop as soon as no dry streaks remain. Fold in walnuts or chocolate chips if using.
- Pour and bake. Pour the batter into the prepared loaf pan and smooth the top. Bake for 50–60 minutes, until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean or with only a few moist crumbs. If the top is browning too quickly, tent loosely with foil after 35 minutes.
- Cool before slicing. Let the loaf cool in the pan for 10 minutes, then turn it out onto a wire rack. Allow it to cool for at least 20 minutes before slicing — this lets the crumb set properly.
- Freeze if making ahead. Wrap cooled slices individually in plastic wrap and place in a zip freezer bag. Freeze for up to 3 months. Thaw overnight in the refrigerator or warm individual slices in a 300°F oven for 10 minutes.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 185 | Protein: 5g | Fat: 5g | Carbs: 32g | Fiber: 3g | Sodium: 190mg