Christmas. Wigilia. The most important night of the Kowalski year.
Christmas Eve at Babcia's house. Just the four of us — Babcia, Mom, Dad, and me — which is all the family there is. Babcia's dining room table was covered in a white cloth with hay underneath (a Polish tradition — the hay represents the manger). An extra place setting at the table for any unexpected guest, or for those who are no longer with us. Dziadek Stefan's chair.
The meal was twelve dishes, as tradition requires. Mushroom soup with tiny dumplings. Carp in aspic (I still hate it but I ate it because you eat what Babcia serves). Herring in cream. Pierogi — Babcia's, not mine. Beet soup with uszka. Fried fish. Sauerkraut with mushrooms. Kutia — a sweet wheat berry dish with poppy seeds and honey. Kompot — a warm fruit drink. Poppy seed cake. Gingerbread. And a walnut roll that Babcia makes only once a year and that is so delicate and buttery and perfect that eating it feels like a privilege.
Before the meal, we shared the op┼éatek — a thin white wafer. You break it with each family member, make a wish, and say something kind. Dad broke his with me and said, "I'm proud of you, kid." Five words. More than Tom Kowalski usually says in a month. I had to look at the ceiling for a second.
Mom broke hers with Babcia and they both cried. Babcia broke hers with me and said, "You're learning, Jakub. Keep learning." I will, Babcia. I will.
The mushroom soup was transcendent. Every year I think it can't possibly be as good as I remember, and every year it's better. Dad cried. He always cries during the mushroom soup. It's not about the soup. It's about all the years of soup, stacked on top of each other, reaching back to when he was a boy sitting at this same table.
I gave Mom the pierogi and she cried (Mom cries a lot — it's an Irish-Catholic-Polish thing). I gave Dad the pierogi and he said, "You made these?" Yes, Dad. I made them. He looked at the bag and then at me and nodded, and I knew he was thinking about Babcia, about how the tradition was being carried forward, about how his son was becoming someone who makes things with his hands.
I gave Steve and Rachel their pierogi on Christmas Day. Rachel hugged me. Steve took one out of the bag, ate it cold, right there in the doorway, and said, "Danny would have loved these." Yeah. He would have.
Merry Christmas. The best one in years.
At the brewery: closed for the holiday. But Fireside is everywhere — in bars, in taprooms, in people's fridges. My beer, keeping Milwaukee warm. Not a bad way to end the year.
The mushroom soup was the moment of the whole night — it always is. Dad cried, I nearly did, and I spent the drive home thinking about how something so simple can hold so much history. I’m not going to pretend I can replicate Babcia’s recipe yet, but this French lentil and mushroom soup is the closest thing in my kitchen rotation to that feeling: earthy and deep and warm all the way through, the kind of bowl that doesn’t just feed you but actually settles you. Make it on a cold night. Put on some quiet music. Leave a chair at the table.
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French Lentil and Mushroom Soup
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 45 min | Total Time: 1 hr | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 2 tablespoons olive oil
- 1 medium yellow onion, diced
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 3 medium carrots, diced
- 2 stalks celery, diced
- 1 lb cremini or baby bella mushrooms, sliced
- 1 cup French green lentils (du Puy), rinsed
- 1 can (14.5 oz) diced tomatoes
- 6 cups vegetable broth
- 1 tablespoon tomato paste
- 1 teaspoon fresh thyme leaves (or 1/2 teaspoon dried)
- 1 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/2 teaspoon ground cumin
- 1 bay leaf
- Salt and black pepper to taste
- 2 tablespoons fresh parsley, chopped (for serving)
- 1 tablespoon red wine vinegar (optional, to finish)
Instructions
- Sauté the aromatics. Heat olive oil in a large heavy-bottomed pot or Dutch oven over medium heat. Add onion and cook until softened and translucent, about 5 minutes. Stir in garlic and cook 1 minute more.
- Build the vegetable base. Add carrots and celery and cook, stirring occasionally, for 4–5 minutes until they begin to soften. Season lightly with salt and pepper.
- Cook the mushrooms. Add the sliced mushrooms to the pot and cook over medium-high heat, stirring occasionally, until they release their liquid and begin to brown, about 7–8 minutes. Stir in the tomato paste and cook 1 minute until it darkens slightly.
- Add lentils and broth. Pour in the vegetable broth and diced tomatoes. Add the rinsed lentils, thyme, smoked paprika, cumin, and bay leaf. Stir to combine and bring to a boil.
- Simmer until lentils are tender. Reduce heat to low, cover partially, and simmer for 30–35 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the lentils are fully tender and the soup has thickened. Remove and discard the bay leaf.
- Finish and season. Taste and adjust salt and pepper. Stir in red wine vinegar if using — it brightens the earthy flavors. Ladle into bowls and top with fresh chopped parsley.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 230 | Protein: 12g | Fat: 5g | Carbs: 34g | Fiber: 9g | Sodium: 620mg
Jake Kowalski
Milwaukee, Wisconsin
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