Forty-three and the introduction looms. Derek's timeline says March. The introduction is the summit. Every time I open the notebook, words dissolve into grief or gratitude or some nameless combination, and I close the notebook and make tea and tell myself tomorrow.
But tomorrow is now March, according to Derek's timeline, highlighted in yellow on the kitchen table. The passive-aggressive productivity of a man who loves me. I will write it because Mama asked me not to stop cooking and the cookbook is the cooking's record and I am the someone. I was always the someone.
Aaliyah is fourteen now — birthday in January, mentioned casually at Set the Table. Nobody made a fuss. Next year, there will be a fuss. This girl will have a birthday cake in a kitchen with people who know her name. That's the minimum every child deserves.
Made chili-lime roasted cauliflower — a "Southern with sense" regular. Cauliflower, olive oil, chili powder, lime zest, 425 until the edges char. Not Mama's. Not Jackson. Nothing that would have existed in Cascade Heights in 1995. But it's mine and it's good and the evolution of a kitchen is not betrayal. The evolution is the tribute. I took what you gave me and I grew.
That cauliflower is mine now — charred edges, lime zest, the whole thing — but some nights I want those same flavors in something I can set on the table and share without ceremony, something that says I grew without requiring an explanation. This Copycat Chipotle Corn Salsa carries that same chili-lime brightness: smoky heat, citrus lift, the kind of bold simplicity that doesn’t apologize for not being what came before it. Mama’s kitchen was the foundation. This is the addition I built on top.
Copycat Chipotle Corn Salsa
Prep Time: 10 min | Cook Time: 10 min | Total Time: 20 min | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 4 ears fresh corn (or 3 cups frozen corn, thawed)
- 1 tbsp olive oil
- 1 medium poblano pepper, seeded and finely diced
- 1/2 red onion, finely diced
- 1 small jalapeño, seeded and minced
- 1/2 cup fresh cilantro, roughly chopped
- 2 tbsp fresh lime juice (about 1 large lime)
- 1/2 tsp lime zest
- 1/2 tsp chipotle chili powder
- 1/4 tsp cumin
- 1/2 tsp kosher salt, plus more to taste
- 1/4 tsp black pepper
Instructions
- Char the corn. Heat a cast iron skillet or grill pan over medium-high heat. Toss corn kernels with olive oil and spread in a single layer. Cook without stirring for 3–4 minutes until kernels begin to char, then stir and cook another 3 minutes. Remove from heat and let cool slightly.
- Char the poblano. In the same pan over medium-high heat, add the diced poblano and cook 3–4 minutes, stirring occasionally, until softened and lightly blistered at the edges. Set aside to cool.
- Combine. In a medium bowl, stir together the charred corn, charred poblano, red onion, and jalapeño.
- Season. Add the cilantro, lime juice, lime zest, chipotle chili powder, cumin, salt, and pepper. Stir well to combine.
- Taste and rest. Adjust seasoning — more lime for brightness, more chipotle for heat. Let the salsa rest at room temperature for 5 minutes before serving so the flavors can settle into each other.
- Serve. Use as a topping for tacos, burrito bowls, or grilled chicken, or serve with chips as a standalone dip.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 95 | Protein: 2g | Fat: 3g | Carbs: 16g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 185mg